The Universal Law of Reflection
This Law says that the traits you respond to in others, you recognize in yourself, both positive and negative. It has four primary manifestations:
1.That which you admire in others, you recognize as existing within yourself;
2.That which you resist and react to strongly in others is sure to be found within yourself;
3.That which you resist and react to in others is something which you are afraid exists within you; and,
4.That which you resist in yourself, you will dislike in others.
In other words, you have chosen to incarnate upon the manifest plane to learn to rise above the effect of fear. Those fears will always be reflected in your reactions to others, Thus your goals are very obvious once you recognize how to perceive them. As you let go of the fear, you automatically open to expressing more unconditional love.
I get it, if you see something you like in someone else, you can tell yourself you have something in common with them! Resistance is futile, if you resist and react strongly to others, you are either like that yourself or you are scared of being a certain way.
So, when you meet someone and they cause a strong negative reaction in you, check yourself for the traits you are denying. A resistance and reaction to others brought about by fear that you could be like the people you are denying, can be overcome by developing acceptance of others and learning unconditional positive regard towards everyone. If you find yourself disliking something in someone else, it is because you resist having that in yourself.