Appreciation and self-love are the most important tools that you could ever nurture. Appreciation of others, and the appreciation of yourself is the closest vibrational match to your Source Energy of anything that we've ever witnessed anywhere in the Universe.

---Abraham

Hello Blogger,

I am really trying not to start all of my blogs with 'sorry, I haven't been able to blog...' I know it sounds like an excuse, but I have generally been unable to blog. 

As I have blogged before, not because my favourite nudges from spirit haven't happened, but because I haven't written them down.

The coincidental numbers, animals, crowing birds, wrong telephone numbers and all sorts of amazing messages which have come to me directly, have still carried on. As usual, I have been reminded that the clearer our own channel, the easier it is for us to notice the signs and messages from spirit.

A lovely poem I have been given. So, to share it with you blogger, here it is:

Share the Joy
by
John Ryan

Each human life's a Universe
Complete in its own right.
We hold within the tools we need
To help us fight the fight,
To walk the walk and talk the talk,
Just look within, you'll see
That all souls are connected,
And set your spirit free.

For once we know the soul lives on,
When earthly life is done,
That fear of death just melts away.
Our new life has begun.
Our loved ones wait for us on high,
They're near us every day.
We have to pass this message on, 
As we go on our way.

I do this in my daily life,
And when some people feel
There must be something more to life.
I tell them spirit's real.
I do it to bring comfort,
And share my sense of peace.
Belief in life eternal
Brings all of us release.

The trials of the material world
Are something we must bear,
But joy and hope can reach us all,
That's something we can share.
Please search within to find yourself,
And you'll find God there too.
And share the joy with all the world,
It's what we're here to do.

Journal of coincidences/Positive events 9th February 2015

Monday

Beautiful sunny day, although a bit brisk. A day to let go of stress, a day of healing, stretching, spiritually, being open to all that spirit have to offer. A day for self-reflection and self-awareness.


Tuesday

I went for a long walk. I enjoyed taking up my old hobby of  snapping photos of random things which showed up on my path. There were lots of them today, six white doves, yes, six, first time I have seen six white doves, anywhere. Two magpies, a white feather, nowhere near the white doves,one robin, a squirrel (which came right up to close to say hello), three black cats in separate locations, one tabby cat which rolled at my feet and showed me a beautiful, vulnerable tummy. So many lost gloves and hats, I lost count, but I did take snaps just to add to my collection. 

I considered going to visit my friend called Ellie, but I changed my mind on the way round there and swerved off to the park to absorb the healing vibrations of fauna and flora. On my way home a lady walking her beautiful, blonde haired labrador stopped for a chat. She spoke about her dog in that loving way only committed dog owners can. 

'What's her name?' I was prompted to ask.
 'Ellie' she said. 

I had a little chuckle, I did explain that I was going to visit my friend called Ellie but I had changed my mind, I don't think it meant anything to her,but it may have done, often people don't like to admit that they find any significance in coincidence. I also had a chat with the owner of a little brown chocolate dog called Bella. No coincidence involved, but who knows who could show up tomorrow?

A wrong number on the telephone. Someone wanting a Mr Dean.

Wednesday

Went to church, had a lovely time. The medium used the words 'you never know what you are going to get' which is exactly the phrase I had used at a job interview, one where I didn't get the job. Not meant to be. I met a new friend called Jenny who gave me a lift to Iceland and waited patiently while I did a bit of shopping and then proceeded to drive me home to my front door! Thank you Universe for a fabulous lift.

Thursday 

Brings the final week of College, I will be half way through this year's Diploma Course. 

The session was smooth and pleasant. I enjoyed the experience. My son called round for dinner. It was lovely to see him.

Friday

Cars gave way to me, on my pedestrian travels, various cars of different shapes and sizes, some friendly drivers, some waving me on impatiently, but giving way nonetheless.

Saturday

Asked for Directions to the Ridgeway. Do I know it? Well, I went for an interview there this week, so, yes, I really do know it. I pointed the young man to the end of the road, told him to turn right at the traffic lights and the road he needed was practically parallel to where we were standing when he asked me. As he headed off I realised there was actually a short cut and a quicker way to get to his destination, so I called him back, I had to shout at the top of my voice, him being a young man he had hoofed off in the direction I sent him. The wind carried my voice and he returned to hear the shortcut version. I continued my journey, reminded I am the person who knows the way.

Lots of love and light to everyone who needs it.

Tamasin x

Tom's Shoes

There isn't anything anybody wants that is for any other reason than that they think they would feel better in having it.

---Abraham

Yes, this is true. Of course. I can still hear people saying 'But I WOULD feel better it I had....x,y,z'. Yes, I agree. The Law of Attraction message seems to be, feel better anyway and see if you still want it. Or, you can feel better anyway whether you have whatever you want or not. Or finally, the key to the Law of Attraction...feel better and you can attract what you want.  *Suspend disbelief at this point*. What harm can there be in trying it? At the very least, you will feel better.

So, yesterday, having a little browse on twitter, I was mentioned in someone else's automatic paper. That is how it works on twitter, you can retweet an article and the computer will pick that article up and then you get the mention. Out of curiosity, I just wondered which of my tweets had made it to a digital paper, so I clicked the paper.li link. Where did it lead me? To an advert for Toms Shoes. A lovely little loafer with embroidery and pretty patterns. Yes, I like the shoes, of course, but I preferred the coincidence of Toms Shoes more.

My dad was called Tom and I often wonder what it was like to walk in his shoes, and how similar my path is to his. 

Lots of love and light to everyone who needs it.

Tamasin x

How to infuse your own Law of Attraction Vortex with as much understanding as you can.

What we would do for yourself — for your next physical experience (and you can do this). . . We would begin, right now, by infusing this physical time/space reality with as much understanding of the Law of Attraction as you can, so that you add to this vortex of knowing. That makes it more likely that — as you and others participate within it — you will have easy access to this understanding that all is well.

---Abraham

All is Well.  It is not a bad mantra is it? I do love a little look at the Law of Attraction quotes, injecting my own personal vibration and reflection onto the statements. I know I cannot be at the highest point regarding these Laws or I wouldn't doubt their validity. I can only view these beliefs through my own personal set of thoughts and beliefs. Which really is exactly what the Law of Attraction extols. The virtues of your vibration is attracting more of the same to you. It truly is.

So, according to this quote, what they would do, because they are all bloody knowing, know alls (and this I would dispute, because I doubt our little minds could cope with the enormity of knowing everything there is to know)...

 'We would infuse this physical time/space reality with as much understanding of the Law of Attraction as you can' 

Yes, this is the area where limits are alluded to, without saying as much. You have to believe it to achieve it. If you can't believe it, then just believe as much as you can. This is what this is saying. You may not be able to catapault yourself into the realm of bliss-filled living, in fact, according to the Law of Attraction, this is simply impossible.

'As much understanding of the Law of Attraction as you can'.  

Obviously, the place to start,as far as I, personally, have got,  is to eliminate all negative emotions and thoughts from your Vortex. Your own personal Vortex, your point of attraction for the Universe. 

A little ritual of aura cleansing, a little visualisation of a fountain of white light pouring through the top of your head, all the way down to the tips of your toes. This is how I begin. Paying more attention to how you feel throughout the day, clearing negativity as you go. This is the best I can do at the moment. I may not be swirling around like a veritable rainbow, but I am definitely practising offering a clearer,lighter vibration.

Lots of love and light to everyone who needs it.

Tamasin x

The vibration of God

That All-That-Isness that is responding to your vibration is that which you call God.

 ---Abraham

Well, it is an interesting concept. Okay, God, All-That-Isness, I know it is big, I know this whole idea of trying to understand God is really too big for my little mind. I wouldn't even attempt to try and whittle God down to a few words. The Law of Attraction does like to simplify things eh? 

What stops me from being able to agree wholeheartedly with the idea that God is the Universe,is my idea that God created the Universe,maybe God did create it from the same matter as he/she is made out of, but still there is nothing bigger than God. Add this to my spirit writing, where I have communicated with people who have passed beyond the veil of death and I just cannot believe there is not so much more going on in our world than we can be aware of. So, even Abraham, bringing through up to date information, I believe, does not have access to the full extent of who/what God is. 

So, I go along with this interesting concept. All-That-Isness (God) is responding to your vibration is that which you call God. What is wrong with that? Well,  it means that God doesn't have to think. It means that all the deep meaningful explanations as to why bad things happen to good people are wiped off the whiteboard. The imaginary whiteboard I use to try and understand life, the universe and what we are all doing here. I do like to believe there is a karmic justice, what goes around comes around, there is a purpose and meaning to life, our soul has a purpose. If we just have a All-That-Isness responding to our vibration, then where is the detail of our experience? What is the point of it all. 

I know that when we pass over to the next realm of consciousness we have a life review. We go through each and every interaction we have with people, seeing how our actions have impacted on other people (good and bad). We reincarnate, we give it another go, we try again. 

I do not believe God can be simplified. I do believe there is an afterlife. I believe in the ten commandments. I believe in spiritual justice. The statement above - the All that isness is responding to your vibration - suggests that there is nothing more to it than that. If you believe that you can ask God for anything that you want and God will yield to your request, then surely we would all be all powerful, healthy,wealthy and wise. My little human mind tells me, this is not the case. I instinctively know we are not equal, we are not meant to all 'have it all', this is the purpose of spiritual growth. Where would the room be for spiritual growth ie helping other people, learning forgiveness and generally being concerned for life on this planet, if we all had everything given to us just because we asked for it?

But, you know, I would rather have an examined life that is less than perfect than an ideal life where I didn't stop to even consider the lives of people less fortunate.

Grateful for every day

If all you did was just look for things to appreciate you would live a joyous, spectacular life.

If there was nothing else that you ever came to understand other than just look for things to appreciate, it's the only tool you would ever need to predominantly hook you up with who you really are. That's all you'd need.

---Abraham

Yes, at last, a simple quote I can absolutely understand and agree with.  Do you know that there have been brilliant people on this planet, those with magnificent minds who have still struggled with the existential questions. Questions such as 'why are we here?' 'what is the purpose of life?' you know, those sort of questions.  

This monkey mind business, the way most of us westerners live our lives, wandering around with chattering, often untamed, monkey minds is probably a recipe for confusion, disorder and definitely a source of unhappiness.  So, I guess, training the mind is probably the single, most important thing we can set out to do for ourselves.  Learning to be happy, it is what those enlightened people call 'living in the moment' or 'living in the Now' with a capital N.  

Could it really be true that just by being appreciative can bring a spectacular life?  Well, I suppose that depends on what you call spectacular, or maybe it is the appreciation that colours the extraordinary into the ordinary. Maybe it is the final part of the quotation that matters, hooking up with who you really are.  There it is.  Who you really are.  There is the mystery.  

The part of the quote which hints at the possibility of something more, as yet undiscovered, a part of ourselves we all need to seek out, engage with, enjoy, a way to empower ourselves, our greater selves can hook up with the little me who is running around with a monkey mind, often in terror and distress at trying to make sense of it all.  

Yes, there is a bigger picture. Using appreciation and gratitude is a well known tool for helping to rise above the lower negative states, if nothing else, by stepping out into the world on a vibration of appreciation and gratitude will at least make life more pleasant for those people surrounding us.  Even if we find ourselves meeting people who hate us even more because we are appearing to be happy. 

 When you think about it, what right has anyone got not to be happy?  No-one has a right to life. Any one of us can have our life taken away at any moment. Life is too short not to experience some form of inner happiness and joy, and life is definitely too short to spend it hating other people because they have a smile on their face. 

Smiling in the face of hatred.

Lots of love and light to everyone who needs it.

Tamasin x

Recognising damaging behaviour patterns

If you get a diagnosis that is not what you want to hear, the tendency is to say,

 "Oh, my god! How did I get so far away from something I want so much?"

And we say, it isn't big like that at all — it's just a series of little things.

It is the, "I could choose this thought which feels good, or this thought which doesn't feel so good. But I've developed a pattern for what doesn't feel good. And so, it is the daily dose of not being in the receiving mode that keeps me not in the receiving mode."

And that's all that it is!

---Abraham

Developing a pattern of what doesn't feel good.  Yes, I can understand that.  The idea that drinking a tea every morning is comforting and something I need to start my day. I believe the waker upper is doing me good. When in fact, the habitual welcome of hot sugary tea is actually outweighed by the general feeling of ill health which has crept up on me over the years. 

Anyone who has been chocolate, sugar, red-bull, cigarette or *insert your own particular form of poison* dependant will know what I am talking about. The false idea that a daily dose of the required comfort food,drink,substance  is a necessary element in order to feel satisfied. 

In fact, the familiar feeling is so far below how we could be feeling, but we have developed a pattern, an addiction,a craving for what doesn't feel good.  This is also true in a metaphysical sense. Life events that don't feel good, but we recognise the feeling and so we head in that direction. We have nowhere else to go. Our inner compass can only take us one way because we haven't re-adjusted our emotional Sat Nav. We haven't polished up our inner being, there is no awareness that another level of improved, better feeling vibration/emotion exists, so what choice do we have? At that time, we don't have a choice.  Not really. Not unless someone grabs us by the elbow and says 'What are you doing?', and even then, we may not listen.

I don't know what causes each individual to stop and take a look around their inner workings. Getting in touch with their feelings and suddenly choosing to let it all hang out or go to therapy or take some time to work on themselves. I guess that is just a very individual choice.  How far down a person goes is their own personal rock bottom and clearly this has to be worse for some people than others, because we are not all the same.  There is no commonly recognised standard under which we can slip and be grabbed by other people, or find someone or something to cling to so we don't sink completely.  Well, some of us manage it, others do sink, they drown completely and often go off the rails for years, sometimes never to return.

 So, just to let you know, dear Blogger Reader, if you are feeling bad, negative, or have any undesirable feeling going on within you at the moment, please know that this can change. It doesn't happen by accident, you have control over what is happening and going on for you.  It all starts with an admission and an improved level of self awareness, the situation where you recognise that you are not happy.  That is where the work begins. Make no mistake, it doesn't happen overnight. How can it? The emotional state you are experiencing didn't arrive overnight, it developed or deteriorated over weeks, months, possibly years. But know this, it can be undone. You can alter your thinking and change your unwanted behaviour. 

Lots of love and light to everyone who is in the process of recognising their own damaging behaviour patterns. Here is wishing you the strength and determination to improve your own little corner of the world.

Tamasin x

Matrix style thinking

It doesn't matter what anybody else is doing with their vibration, it only matters what you are doing. You cannot desire something—and notice that it isn't coming—without offering two contradictory vibrations that won't let it come.

---Abraham

Ah, the old issue of resistance.  Whatever we resist continues to rush towards us at an alarming rate.  Have you noticed how people who have a fear of something are the people who tend to experience that very same thing?  

It is the old chicken and the egg scenario, what comes first? The fear of an event, the thought that something could happen or  is it the thing that is actually about to happen creating a fair and rational fear, a sort of Matrix type premonition that feels as though it comes from the outside, but the truth and the reality is, the events are attracted to us by our own making, from the inside.

Hmm, that of course, is just one way of looking at the ills of society, the unnecessary and downright unwanted events that show up on a daily basis.  Of course, the Law of Attraction is not suggesting that we are creating the most unwanted events in our lives, I can see how the prevention of allowing the wanted is sort of similar to creating the unwanted.

So, it is not too far a stretch to picture the idea that although we may not actually create unwanted situations, we are responsible for not allowing the situations that we actually do want.  Yes, I can see how, personally, focusing on being unemployed, looking for a job, whilst at the same time being aware that as an unemployed person I am on the bottom of the heap, churning negative thoughts around in my mind about my worth, my value, my status in society.  Yes, it does make sense. When I am completely honest with myself, I often let my mind stray into unwanted territory. The territory of negative thinking. I can help this. I do know better, but it is a habitual fall back position. If my mind isn't occupied consciously with loving, kind, harmonious thinking, it is all too easy to find myself having a little think about the undesirable elements of my current non-working situation.  Having a little ponder, a dwell, not just a muse, or a passing thought, but an in depth meander through the worse possible case scenarios I can hang my scariest thoughts on.  Tsk. Yes, I should know better. 

Okay then, in order to rustle up something fabulous into my world I will continue skipping through it doing Alice in Wonderland impressions and wait for the next rabbit hole to open up. Not a trace of irony,cynicism or negativity. The next unexpected adventure could be fun.

Lots of love and light to everyone who needs it.

Tamasin x

Contentment over passion

If you know that all is well, you know all you need to know.

 And if you know life is supposed to be fun, you know more than almost anybody else knows.

And if you know that the way you feel is your indicator of how connected you are to Source, then you know that which only a handful of Deliberate Creators, respective to the total population, really know.

The beasts all know it.

Your animals know that all is well. Your animals live in the moment. They understand the power of their now. They expect the Universe to yield to them. They don't worry or fret or conjure or make laws or rules or try to regulate. They are Pure Positive Energy. Your beasts vibrate more on the Energy scale of contentment than of passion. Their desire was set forth from Non-physical, and continues to be set forth by those, like you, who want Energy balance, who want sustenance.

The difference between the beast and the human is that the beast is more general in its intent.

The human is usually less blended, usually less allowing of the Energy to flow, but is more specific. And that is why the human is seen to be the Creator while the beast is more the balancer of Energy.

---Abraham

Dear Reader,

Hello, thank you for staying with me while I digest and pick through the Law of Attraction quotes which are helpfully emailed to me on a daily basis.

 I am honestly trying not to be cynical, I know the Law of Attraction is extremely powerful, I also know a lot of people have tried it and found it wanting. I do like a bit of analysis, and this is why I blog about this Law of Attraction. Clearly, I like to pick things to shreds and get to the bottom of them. I can only do this from my point of view and this is only my opinion.  I think the whole thing of the Law of Attraction, it is a personal journey. 

I do believe in positive thinking, joyful feelings, feeling good is part of life’s journey and I do recognise my own inner compass that tells me when I am on the wrong path, or I have taken a swerve. Sometimes I listen to my inner self, often I have ignored my own inner warnings, the gut feelings, the sensations of feeling quite sick at various actions I have found myself walking towards, and taken the action anyway.  Have I learnt yet? Have I learnt that the best emotional guidance system I have got lies within myself.  Maybe.  Although, I am still learning. I guess I will be learning until I am old and withered. 

Not having had the experience of listening to my inner self through old brain cells, old feelings or stagnant thoughts, I cannot yet say how powerful my inner guidance will be.  Perhaps that too is something which diminishes with age, or perhaps it is lack of use.  Like a muscle, use it or lose.  Well, just like  my mind, which I am hoping to keep active, busy, occupied, and therefore lively and able, I am also going to continue to trust my instincts for as long as humanly possible.  Do I need to be more catlike? Perhaps I do.  I am sorry for this little ramble blogger, I just couldn’t bring myself to blog about Animal Attraction.

Lots of love and light to everyone who needs it.

Tamasin x

Practising feeling 'as if'

Offer a vibration that matches your desire rather than offering a vibration that keeps matching what-is.

---Abraham

This has got to be one of the shortest explanations of the Law of the Attractions and yet, one of the biggest obstacles.

Offer a vibration that matches your desire.  I understand the arguments against this one.  The argument is ‘But I look at my life and it is this way, not that way, how can I lie to myself that it isn’t?’ that sort of thinking.  Which is a wonderful logical obstacle, a self-enforced brick wall against the illogical law of attraction.

‘How can I possible pretend that everything is hunky dory when it clearly isn’t?’

‘You are living in la-la land if you can believe something which isn’t true’.

‘What sort of planet are you on?’

These upfront, declarations of disbelief are easier to work with than the more frequent alternative. The idea that we think we are offering the vibration/feeling/thoughts which match what we want, when actually we are just plodding through more of the same.

In my experience, people fall into two categories. Those who can’t believe they can offer the vibration of what they want. They can only see what they have already got.  The second category are mistakenly feeling ‘what is’ whilst telling themselves that they are doing everything the Law of Attraction recommends.

So, if you are in the first category of people who just can’t see how feeling ‘as if’ you are already experiencing whatever it is that you desire, there is not a lot I can offer you, except to ask you “What have you got to lose by giving it a go?’ for at least 21 days. The reason I choose 21 days is because apparently, this is how long it takes to drop a habit for good.  Feeling bad, wanting something you haven’t got is a bad habit. It is a negative vibration which can be changed. By you. But it is your choice.

For people who desperately want to believe the Law of Attraction is true but cannot understand why it isn’t working for them. This is the part that requires a little work. Well, maybe not a little, for some people it will require more work than others!  It all starts with personal development, a look at what we are truly offering the Universe from our point of attraction. Time to be honest with yourself, examine your self-talk, notice when you are thinking anything other than healthy thoughts and take corrective action.

Corrective action. A simple coin of phrase. I remember I first heard this when I failed my driving test. I reversed a car I had only driven for two hours before the test and took two wheels over the kerb. ‘It is okay, you can take corrective action’ He said.  So I did. I drove forward, the car was in exactly the same position. I reversed back round the corner, I turned the wheel at precisely the same moment as the time before and voila two wheels went over the pavement.

Corrective action.  I learnt. The hard way, that in order to change anything you have to do something different.

You know what they say – doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results is the definition of insanity.  Well, yes, I guess they could be right.

Lots of love and light to everyone who needs it.

Tamasin x

Sharing the same level - being on the same wavelength

In order to help someone who's in a very different vibrational frequency, you've got to adjust your vibrational frequency so that they can hear you. 

And if we were standing in your physical shoes, we would not adjust our vibrational frequency down—ever. We would not introduce more resistance in our vibration for any reason whatsoever, because disconnecting yourself from resources does not give them more to eat.

---Abraham

Hello Blogger,

I am continuing my stroll through Abraham Hicks quotes, mainly for inspiration to write daily. It is already there, a prepared prompt. It doesn't require any thought or preparation on my part. Laziness I think you would call it.  A lazy quote that is easy to write about. Still, better to write a little of something than a lot of nothing.  To keep in the habit of writing.  Also, to continue picking the Law of Attraction apart piece by piece in an attempt to understand it.

So, as per the quote above, 'in order to help someone who's in a very different vibrational frequency, you've got to adjust your vibrational frequency so that they can hear you'.  Yes, I understand that, you have to put yourself on the same level as the person you are interacting with, or else your words or help just fall on deaf ears. You are too far removed for them to be able to comprehend anything you are offering because you are not on the same wavelength.  This is easy to understand.  It is the next part which completely contradicts the idea that you need to adjust your vibrational frequency...'we would not adjust our vibrational frequency down..'  So, if you aren't supposed to adjust your own frequency down, where are you supposed to adjust it?

Oh boy.  I guess, and it is only a guess, that in order to help someone who is living life on a very low frequency, emotionally, mentally, spiritually, there is no point in talking about the wonders of life and the beauty of God or anything joyful or loving, I guess you need to talk on the next vibrational level up. The vibration within which the person who needs help can relate to, can move towards and words which can be heard and believed, thereby helping them on their path of baby steps towards an improved vibration.  

So, next time someone who wants to talk to you about something they clearly know nothing about, forgive them, they are just not aware of how far removed vibrationally you are from their state of being. If you find yourself fortunate enough to be having a conversation with someone who is much better off than you, financially, physically, emotionally, spiritually,mentally, try and be grateful that somehow they have gravitated into your life experience to show you how a different way of being is possible. If it can happen for one person, it can happen for everyone.

Lots of love and light to everyone who needs it.

Tamasin x

Twenty Universal Laws (20) : The Universal Law of Divine Order

The Universal Law of Divine Order

If you seek to understand the Law of Divine Order, study the natural balance of nature, for it works very much the same way. 

Everything is as it should be, although mankind (our energy gestalt) is far from experiencing its potential of total harmony. 

There are no accidents. Your energy, translated into thoughts, words, emotions, and deeds, causes all your experiences. This assures that you always have the learning opportunities you require to resolve your Karma, and, as with you, the collective thoughts, words, emotions, and deeds of mankind create the environment for us all. If enough souls focus their energy upon peace, we will have peace. If the majority of souls are filled with anger, may all have to experience war. 

We are all one, and like the many sub-personalities within you, the dominant traits of mankind (the entire gestalt) will emerge to resolve our group Karma.

Everything is as it should be.  Your energy causes all your experiences. You will always have the opportunity of learning which will resolve your Karma. We are all one.  Separateness is an illusion.

There is nothing you can do that will separate you from the whole.  There is nothing anyone else can do to distance themselves.  All you can do is focus on generating the best possible feelings of love, kindness and understanding.  

Thanks for joining me on the journey.

Lots of love and light to everyone who needs it.

Tamasin x

Twenty Universal Laws (19) : The Universal Law of Abundance

19. The Universal Law of Abundance

You have within yourself everything required to make your earthly incarnation a paradise if you choose to accept that which is your divine birth-right. 

We live in a Universe of abundance, although the majority of those populating our planet appear to view it as a Universe of scarcity.

Another Law that has been adopted by sellers of books.  The Law of Abundance, of course everyone has the right to make their lives a paradise.  I suspect this relates to a feeling, a loving feeling, a vibration of fullness, rather than having the latest Audi parked on the drive. 

So naturally, this Law has been stretched to include financial status, abundance of cash, over-flowing bank accounts, material wealth beyond our wildest dreams.  This Law also seems to hint at the idea that it is our own perception that creates an overflowing Universe or a poverty stricken hell hole.  To shrink ourselves down, lowering our expectations and adopting new modes of thought, we can make ourselves believe we have it all.  If we can lie to ourselves long enough, it will become our truth. I do believe that is the theory.  

I will keep trying.  New Daily Affirmation 'I live in an abundant Universe'.  

Lots of Abundance to everyone who needs it.

Tamasin x

Twenty Universal Laws (18) : The Universal Law of Magnetic Affinities

The Universal Law of Magnetic Affinities

By Astrologically choosing the time and place of your birth, you determine the nature or the effects you will experience in your life.

 On the other side, before we are born, we make decisions about the lifetime we will be entering into. You chose your parents, other souls to interact with you, and the Astrological configurations of your birth which determine your character, personality, abilities, restrictions, and timing for strengths and weaknesses. 

If all of this seems too complicated to be real, be aware that you are only using five to ten percent of the capacity of your brain. And the brain-mind researchers say the human brain has 200,000 times the capacity of the greatest computer ever built.

 Such calculations as I've just described would be no problem for such a computer.

 This Law negates all previous laws!  Ha ha ha!  oh. dear. Clearly I must have misunderstood something. So, it doesn't matter how much Law of Attraction you have managed to overcome, how much Law of Reflection you have mastered, the fact is there will be some events we just cannot avoid.  Magnetic Affinities.  Somehow this suggests to me a perfect match. It was meant to happen. You asked for it.  There is nothing you can do about it. *Throws hands up in the air*.  Well, just in case there is something I can do about it ie practice the Law of Conscious Detachment and just not give a toss, I will carry on working towards self-improvement.  It is the best I can hope for.

Lots of Unconditional Love, Unconditional Positive Regard, Acceptance, Kindness and Understanding.

Tamasin x

Twenty Universal Laws (17) : The Universal Law of Unconditional Love

The Universal Law of Unconditional Love

The expression of unconditional love will eventually result in harmony. Unconditional love is not romantic love. It is the acceptance of others as they are without judgment or expectations. It is total acceptance of others without attempting to change them, except by our own positive example.

 The law of unconditional love says, "If you go out of your way to express unconditional love, you automatically rise above fear, and, as you transcend your fears, you automatically open to the expression of unconditional love.

Hello Blogger,

Unconditional Love.  Yes, here it is.  The answer to Life, the Universe and Everything.  Of course.  The only 'right' we have to offer anything less than unconditional love is only with a view to using any reactions and resistance to other people as a way to improve our own personal vibrational clean up.  Why would anyone else deserve anything less?  Yes, accepting others for how they are, knowing that we can only do our best and other people will happily resist and react to us.  

The main benefit of expressing love unconditionally, apart from the positive, harmonious effect this will have on the people we meet and have dealings with in our lives, is to know that this is the true 'Secret'. The way to magically rise above our fear, or through our fear, or the way to transmute fear, is to work on the fear until all we feel is love.

Lots of love and light to everyone who needs it.

Tamasin x

Twenty Universal Laws (16) : The Universal Law of Reflection

The Universal Law of Reflection

This Law says that the traits you respond to in others, you recognize in yourself, both positive and negative. It has four primary manifestations:

1.That which you admire in others, you recognize as existing within yourself;

2.That which you resist and react to strongly in others is sure to be found within yourself;

3.That which you resist and react to in others is something which you are afraid exists within you; and,

4.That which you resist in yourself, you will dislike in others.

In other words, you have chosen to incarnate upon the manifest plane to learn to rise above the effect of fear. Those fears will always be reflected in your reactions to others, Thus your goals are very obvious once you recognize how to perceive them. As you let go of the fear, you automatically open to expressing more unconditional love.

All you need is love, again.  Overcome the fear or feel the fear and do it anyway.  Yes, the Law of Reflection, a far more useful law than the Law of Attraction surely.  

I get it, if you see something you like in someone else, you can tell yourself you have something in common with them!  Resistance is futile, if you resist and react strongly to others, you are either like that yourself or you are scared of being a certain way.

So, when you meet someone and they cause a strong negative reaction in you, check yourself for the traits you are denying.  A resistance and reaction to others brought about by fear that you could be like the people you are denying, can be overcome by developing acceptance of others and learning unconditional positive regard towards everyone.  If you find yourself disliking something in someone else, it is because you resist having that in yourself.  

Smile at behaviour you recognise as undesirable, remember to shed yourself of the same behaviour and forgive, forgive, forgive anyone who brings up resistant and reaction in you. They are doing you a favour and letting you know which areas of your own being you have to work on.

Overcome the fear with love.  Love others as you would have them love you!

Lots of love and light to everyone who needs it.

Tamasin x

Twenty Universal Laws (15) : Universal Law of Attraction

The Law of Attraction

"Where your attention goes, your energy flows." 

You attract what you are and that which you concentrate upon. 

If you are negative, you draw in and experience negativity. 

If you are loving, you draw in and experience love. You can attract to you only those qualities you possess. 

So, if you want peace and harmony in your life, you must become peaceful and harmonious.

Hello Blogger,

Well, here it is, THE Law that has raced away from all the others. The Law of Attraction.  Books have been written on the subject.  The best spin doctors in the world have hijacked this previously little known 'Law' and managed to turn it into a magic formula which allows anyone, anywhere, to attract all the wealth in the world.

Well,  I keep trying it.  I have been trying this for at least fifteen years and I am still a member of the precariat class system.  I am still hanging on by the skin of my teeth financially and my fortunes are dependent on the economy, which is dependent on George Osborne taking pity on the poverty stricken.  Sorry, what's that Blogger? I can hear you laughing?  Yes, it is amusing isn't it? 

But you know, even by repeating the reality of my story, the actual picture at the moment, I am spouting negativity.  So, by being negative, I will draw in and experience negativity.  By being loving, I will draw in and experience love.  This is the hijacked part.  The link between your own vibrational, emotional state and your financial, material state.  The Law of Attraction is meant to make everyone rich, when in fact all you need is love. 

Love, it cannot be bought, but it can be felt, you can change your own emotional state.  You may not be able to change the numbers on the final tally of your bank balance, but no matter what your material state of wealth, you can choose to feel loving and harmonious, regardless of your circumstances. Honest.

Lots of love and light to everyone who needs it.

Tamasin x

Twenty Universal Law (14) : The Universal Law of Resistance

The Universal Law of Resistance

That which you resist you draw to you, and you will perpetuate its influence upon your life. 

Resistance is fear, so it is something you need to Karmically resolve.

The Law of Resistance assures that you let go of the fear by encountering it until you are forced to deal with it by learning conscious detachment.

Hello Blogger,

Eek, I am behind with my writing and peering into the twenty Universal Laws!  Isn't it amazing how time just seems to slip away from us when we are busy and involved in something. I don't suppose it really matters what that 'something' is, as long as we are fully engrossed, we look up and voila, a few days have passed by and before we know it we have moved on.  

My little moving on this week has been through a process of learning, travelling up North to Birmingham, spending two days overnight at a hotel, two days in a Training Academy to learn about Beds and all things Bed related.  I can completely understand how your resistance can keep you stuck in a situation. A vibrational state of fear is an unpleasant way to spend a day.  Who would want to? And obviously, there are some things which are genuine fears, in fact, fear is worthy of a blog all by itself.  Resistance can be fear, it can also be created not just by fear but by resignation, giving up of expecting anything better, ignorance that life can improve, that there can be a nicer, more pleasant vibration to experience.  

But, for the purposes of this 'little look' into the Law of Resistance, 'that which you resist you draw to you and you will perpetuate its influence upon your life'.  

Yes, I am sure we have all have these experiences and we find ourselves doing things which are sort of like a form of self-sabotage.  For instance, we choose to park our car somewhere that gives us a free hour. We tell ourselves that we can get the shopping done in an hour and eyt in our mind we have a vision of a traffic warden writing a ticket.  What happens?  We are rushing around doing our shopping, resisting the parking ticket.  Naturally, there will be something which prevents us from returning within the hour and there will be a parking ticket waiting for us on the windshield.  This may appear to be common sense, logic and preventable, and maybe it is, just stupidity to take a risk.  Or maybe, by applying the Law of Resistance, we can see how this scenario has come about.  The person parked in the next car has learnt to release any fear, there is no resistance in their world. They are shopping with conscious detachment. There will be nothing getting in their way of returning to the car before the parking ticket runs out.

Yes, I can see completely how the latter experience would be more preferable.  The knowledge that our own resistance and fear of ....x,y or z, can make the situation worse is actually good news. It means we have the power to try and change to make the experience better simply by letting go of the fear and carrying on regardless.  

Letting go of my own fear of never having any time to myself again...

Lots of love and light to everyone who needs it.

Tamasin x